When I was a child, i really love to have a close friend wherever I go. When I go to church I have best-friend, when I go to school I have another best-friend, and within our village as well. And I called them, my best-friends. I really love my childhood best-friends but when we grew up, things change so differently, we have separate lives, betrayal happened, I lost them all, no seeing each other and no communication at all. I cried a lot, and felt that I was abandon, neglected, not respected as a person. And that is why, I said to myself, best-friends will gone. So, after losing them when i was high school, I don't want to have close friends anymore. They will just betray me and influence me negatively.
Last week, my classmate Xenia and I had time together after our class. We went to papemelroti to canvass gifts for next week school tour. Xenia is a charming, loving, and very friendly girl. She has a good character to share,(i bet her parents raised her well). I learn a lot every time we are together.
At that time, i learned so many things. firstly, people are different, I could not generalize all people as not good friends and may hurt me again. Secondly, I learn that my past wounds are already healed and starting to open, and trust other people and can freely say, she's my new friend. Thirdly and last, there are many people who are really good, we just have to appreciate them and of course to appreciate them, we have to learn how to forget and forgive the past.
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